Sound like your kid?
“I don’t care! I quit – this is too hard.” “Why don’t YOU do it?”
Is his backpack a disaster, homework always a battle and everything seems to be put off until the last nano-second (“I’ll do it… just give me a minute!”)?
Do you feel like your kid’s personal organizer (“TODAY is the spelling test!”) and Big Ben (“the bus is coming in minute!”)
Does her teacher tell you: “I just know she could do better if she’d just apply herself”?
If so chances are you have a little slacker in your home, and can they be frustrating. They dawdle, put things off until the last minute, are unorganized, have poor time management skills and cut corners.
THREE BIG DISADVANTAGES OF SLACKING
Though slackers usually have fewer ulcers and are a bit more laid back, there are clear disadvantages for kids who adopt “taking the easy way is the best way” as a life attitude.
~ Relationship and reputation downer: Siblings, friends, teammates and parents get tired of always having to be this kid’s reminder.
~ Achievement derailer: Test scores and grades are usually lower because he waits to study or turn tasks in without the effort needed.
~ Success curtailer: Because he doesn’t practice or work as long as needed to experience success he’s shortchanged.